The dress code is festive, but not too fancy.  We'll be outside, so, even though it's mid-July, consider bringing something to cover up with if we're blessed with rain.  And then again, it might be really hot and dry, so check the weather, and dress accordingly.  There will be dancing after eating, so bring your dancing shoes.  There's VERY limited parking at the lodge, so you should also bring some sensible shoes, as you may be walking a ways from your car (for folks who can't walk far - the elderly, small children, and stiletto-wearers - make sure you're driving with someone who can drop you off at the lodge and then park further away). There's also a lake RIGHT THERE, and therefore a swimsuit isn't out of the question.  We do request, however, that you wear more than a swimsuit during the actual ceremony - we do not wish to be upstaged.

It won't be this cold...